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| Author: | Chibi Yosho [ Sat Apr 17, 2004 8:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girl Problems... |
I have been hesitant to post anything on this for a while now, but it has always been in the back of my mind to do so...<br><br>Anyway, if you want to read about my problem and give me advice, please read on...<br><br>I've liked a girl for a while now and a few months back I told her that I liked her (after she told me she liked me). And after that we became more friendly and spoke more and more on the phone and over the Internet. We actually kissed at a party a few weeks later. The next morning she told me at school that she wanted to prove a point to her ex boyfriend that they wouldn't work by going out with him again, but they've been going out for a few months now.<br><br>Today, on the Internet, she asked me for advice. She said "What would you do if you were going out with someone but you liked someone else" and I told her that she should follow her heart or speak with someone for advice (like her mother who she is really close with). She said "My Mam thinks that the other guy is better, not my boyfriend". Then she eventually said she was talking about me and said that she really likes me, which I said the same...<br><br>She keeps saying that she wants to finish with her boyfriend but not want to loose him a friend so she is staying with him and that she likes me more than him... People have told me from the beginning that she is messing me around, but I think she's not, shes not that kind of girl... It would be nice if someone could help me because she is the one girl I could see my self with at the moment... <p><center><hr><br><img src="http://freespace.virgin.net/peter.stephenson2004/lupin.jpg" border="0" alt="RemusLupin"><br><br><marquee>You are Remus Lupin,the kind werewolf and possibly the sweetest person in the world... ^^ You like to read and love hanging around with your best friends.</marquee> <br><br><a href="http://quizilla.com/users/babyangel732/quizzes/Which%20of%20the%20marauders%20are%20you%3F/"> <font size="-1">Which of the marauders are you?</font></a><BR> <font size="-3">brought to you by <a href="http://quizilla.com">Quizilla</a></font></center></p><i></i> |
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| Author: | El Uno Jigglioso [ Sat Apr 17, 2004 9:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl Problems... |
All I'll say right here is that it is absolutely futile to even attempt to understand girls.<br><br>Their thought processes are incomparable to anything understood by man.<br><br>Not that I want to encourage negative thoughts, but I wouldn't ignore your friends' warnings about this girl completely. It sounds as though she simply doesn't know what she wants and is deluding herself that she can effectively have the best of both worlds, as it were.<br>Of course, she can't, and she is eventually going to have to hurt somebody - either yourself or her boyfriend. Either way won't be pretty.<br><br>Hope you don;t get hurt, but try not to get your hopes up too much...<br><br><br>***ALL OF THIS HAS BEEN WRITTEN BY A SAD LONELY BASTARD WHO HAS NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND*** <p>---------------------<br><!--EZCODE UNDERLINE START--><span style="text-decoration:underline"><!--EZCODE BOLD START--><strong>PEACE AND CAKE!</strong><!--EZCODE BOLD END--></span><!--EZCODE UNDERLINE END--><br><!--EZCODE IMAGE START--><img src="http://www.dimensionalstars.com/jiggs.jpg" style="border:0;"/><!--EZCODE IMAGE END--><br><!--EZCODE ITALIC START--><em>"Words of love and words of leisure, Words are poisoned darts of pleasure..."</em><!--EZCODE ITALIC END--> - Franz Ferdinand</p><i></i> |
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| Author: | Chibi Yosho [ Sun Apr 18, 2004 4:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl Problems... |
So she could be leading me on... Maybe incase her and hetr boyfriend don't work out? Or she is just confused...<br><br>Ah well thanks for not wanting me to get hurt... ^_^<br>I'll try to keep an update on here for anyone who wants to know... :P <p><center><hr><br><img src="http://freespace.virgin.net/peter.stephenson2004/lupin.jpg" border="0" alt="RemusLupin"><br><br><marquee>You are Remus Lupin,the kind werewolf and possibly the sweetest person in the world... ^^ You like to read and love hanging around with your best friends.</marquee> <br><br><a href="http://quizilla.com/users/babyangel732/quizzes/Which%20of%20the%20marauders%20are%20you%3F/"> <font size="-1">Which of the marauders are you?</font></a><BR> <font size="-3">brought to you by <a href="http://quizilla.com">Quizilla</a></font></center></p><i></i> |
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| Author: | chevybrain [ Mon Apr 19, 2004 1:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl Problems... |
I had a woman do that to me. I was Sancho in her skeem. I kept telling her to get a divorce from her estranged husband. I finnally broke up with her, but kept going out with her occasionally. <br>Couple of weeks ago she said she was going to San Diego and not coming back. I figured she was getting back with her husband. She asked me to take her out that thursday two weeks ago. We had some "fun".<br>The next week I was texting her trying to find out what was gonig on. She'd reply with really short answers. I finnally came out and asked if she was divorced yet. She said no. I asked if she had gotten back with "Mike" She had. <br>My friends at work had told me this would happen. They told me to just hit and and split it. I ignored thier advice when she told me she loved me.<br>Of course I was hurt at first. But then I got over it when I realized that my friends were right about her. She was just looking for some "fun" while her sailor was around the world having "fun" with out her.<br>Whatch out Chibi Yosho... Lay it down for her so she understands what you are thinking. My ex told me you can't make ultimatums in relation ships. Love is built on trust and that is shaky ground. <p><!--EZCODE IMAGE START--><img src="http://www.dickwad.net/ot/SlayerSig2.jpg" style="border:0;"/><!--EZCODE IMAGE END--><!--EZCODE CENTER START--><div style="text-align:center">"Hashiriya are lonely drivers so, we do not need girlfriends."</div><!--EZCODE CENTER END--></p><i></i> |
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| Author: | Chibi Yosho [ Mon Apr 19, 2004 1:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl Problems... |
Thanks for the help everyone, I've asked her to decide and she's not sure at the moment. If she does break up with her boyfriend I'm sure she won't go back to him after the things he puts her through...<br><br>She's going to talk to her boyfriend to see if she can sort out their relationship, which is doubtful, then she is going to give me the verdict.<br><br>Fingers crossed, eh? <p><center><hr><br><img src="http://freespace.virgin.net/peter.stephenson2004/Nokie.gif" border="0" alt="RemusLupin"><center><b><i>Nokie - Tenchi Muyo OAV 3</i></b></center></p><i></i> |
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| Author: | chevybrain [ Mon Apr 19, 2004 1:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl Problems... |
Well... just keep an eye out for other gals eyeing you. Plenty more fish in the sea. <p><!--EZCODE IMAGE START--><img src="http://www.dickwad.net/ot/SlayerSig2.jpg" style="border:0;"/><!--EZCODE IMAGE END--><!--EZCODE CENTER START--><div style="text-align:center">"Hashiriya are lonely drivers so, we do not need girlfriends."</div><!--EZCODE CENTER END--></p><i></i> |
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| Author: | 10LightHawkWings [ Mon Apr 19, 2004 4:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl Problems... |
I wish I were better at fishing. Anyways I like EUJ have never had a girlfriend. I wish you luck and hope everything works out for the best. <p><!--EZCODE CENTER START--><div style="text-align:center">I am the one.</div><!--EZCODE CENTER END--><br><!--EZCODE CENTER START--><div style="text-align:center">I am Tsunami's apprentice.</div><!--EZCODE CENTER END--><br><!--EZCODE CENTER START--><div style="text-align:center"> I am one of the few</div><!--EZCODE CENTER END--><br><!--EZCODE CENTER START--><div style="text-align:center">able to produce</div><!--EZCODE CENTER END--><br><!--EZCODE CENTER START--><div style="text-align:center">10 Light Hawk Wings!!<br></div><!--EZCODE CENTER END--></p><i></i> |
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| Author: | Chibi Yosho [ Mon Apr 19, 2004 6:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl Problems... |
She's just told me that she's going to talk with him to see if they can just be friends... To see what he thinks. ^_^ <p><center><hr><br><img src="http://freespace.virgin.net/peter.stephenson2004/Nokie.gif" border="0" alt="RemusLupin"><center><b><i>Nokie - Tenchi Muyo OAV 3</i></b></center></p><i></i> |
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| Author: | JadenStriker2ndGen [ Tue Apr 20, 2004 12:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl Problems... |
Not a lot of info to work with, but at least at this point they are reviewing their relation. Does she know what she wants in a relationship? In addtion to that do you and the other guy know what you want in a relationship as well?<br><br>If you don't communicate with her, your going to be like the other two guys near the beggining of this thread and have no real clue as to what a girl wants, mainly because they generilize every female as the same, and it doesn't work that way. You won't be able to understand women at large if you don't understand how to think of them as indeviduales and address one at a time.<br><br>This is not phylisofical or phycological BS, I'm being for real here. Don't trust sterotypes or generalizations, it will only get a big hole dug.<br><br>Address her as an individual and talk to her directly, asking her what she wants, and what she likes, and telling her about yourself, what you like and what you want. I know this should be comman knowledge and that any one should know this, but some people over time tend to ignore doing that and end up generilizing and trivializing this, and stop seeing individuals and start seeing steryotypes. <p></p><i></i> |
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| Author: | chevybrain [ Tue Apr 20, 2004 12:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl Problems... |
I told my ex that I just wanted to have some fun. I told her I didn't want to be a dad. And in the end that's what she wanted, even though she told me she wasn't asking me to be a dad. <p><!--EZCODE IMAGE START--><img src="http://www.dickwad.net/ot/SlayerSig2.jpg" style="border:0;"/><!--EZCODE IMAGE END--><!--EZCODE CENTER START--><div style="text-align:center">"Hashiriya are lonely drivers so, we do not need girlfriends."</div><!--EZCODE CENTER END--></p><i></i> |
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