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Author:  Minagi [ Fri Jun 12, 2009 1:07 am ]
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So, remembe that girl I had a crush on... well she showed up last night at teen group, which was very random. So, afterwards we hang out and I get in the bed of my buddies truck then she climbs in and grabs my Bible. Inside my Bible case is a notepad and communicates via writing and talking. She then writes down, "I'll give you another chance if you still want to go out with me." I immediately said yes. She was all smiley the rest of the night.
So, we go to see UP. Now, when this happended last night by buddy was with me so I kinda invited him along for he was there and I would feel bad for exlcluding him. She also brought a friend.
So, I pm'd her a bit ago and asked her if she enjoyed herself.
I'm blown away that I got the chance to go out with the girl I've had emotions for. I just hope this isn't a one time deal, if it is... we move on.

But I pull a bad move. Now, I'd paid for her ticket and tried to pay for her drink, but she was to fast. So, then during the film she smiles at me and says, "i need a refill" I gave a look with a smile, "R u serious" She then looks to my buddy and I realize, "idiot" then I say "I'll do it!" with enthusiasm. Bad move, right?
Author:  bkev [ Fri Jun 12, 2009 1:57 pm ]
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If she asked you for a date, then it was definitely a date. I've been in situations with a girl where I treat, and she might let me get a little physical ("friendly squeeze", hah! There ain't such a thing). Yet she doesn't see me as more than a friend.

You however have a chance. Go for it dude.
Author:  supergirlcomix [ Sat Jun 13, 2009 12:10 am ]
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So this is how a boy's mind works?

Anyhoo, Comix here with the female perspective:
Way to go! I wouldn't put too much thought on the drink thing. I highly doubt she's brooding over it unless she's some sort of foul medusa, which, by your description, she most likely is not.

I wish you luck on further dating adventures. I highly recommend dinner, or lunch even. It gives you a chance to actually talk and laugh a bit.
Author:  Addy-Lyn [ Sat Jun 13, 2009 12:24 am ]
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People still go on dates? At the movies?
Where have I been?

Great job Jess.
Good luck with the chica.

I have no girly advice, except keep your hands and other appendages to yourself. I'm sure I'm not the only one who get tired of that quickly. Dx.
Author:  Minagi [ Sat Jun 13, 2009 1:00 am ]
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She took me out on pitty T.T
Author:  Addy-Lyn [ Sat Jun 13, 2009 11:16 pm ]
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Would you rather not have being taken out?

Don't worry Jess, I'll take you to a nice dinner. xD.
And a movie.
And I'll get your refill, and mine.
xD.

Assuming that scuz bucket isn't around then. xD.
Author:  supergirlcomix [ Sat Jun 13, 2009 11:43 pm ]
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whoa whoa. Where'd the pity thing come from?
Author:  Minagi [ Sun Jun 14, 2009 12:10 am ]
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This is what she said in a reply. I asked her if she wanted to go out again and this is the reply, "well im gonna be honest with you dude ill will always only like you as just friends im sorry its so cliche but hanging out in a group as friends is good with me but yes i did have fun. woow big run-on sorry im not used to typing letters. so yes i was making it up to you because you looked really sad and I thought it might make it a little better but jesse I dont think ill ever be ready to date im very protective of my heart myself and I try not to hurt the other person this is why i didnt want to go out with you because i dont want to hurt your feelings because i dont like you in that way im sorry but your a sweet guy and a good guy there is gonna be a girl for you and she is gonna be your little hyper companion and she will adore you ever so and like you for you and never leave you. thanks for the hang out i enjoyed it so dont worry about it k. :)"

Somehow I acted sad the night before we went out. I don't know why, but she thought so.

Guys, this was the worse dating experience I ever had. First I thought we could've became something right off the bat. Bad mistake, but shouldn't I have hope that one date could evolve into something special? I became angry at her for thinking she was taking me out because I was a charity case, but I ended up hurting myself.
This is the second night I have literally cried over it. I have cried out of anger towards her for thinking she was toying with me. Now, I weep for thinking something is wrong with me. Why should I be so trusting, naieve, and stupid? I feel nothing, I just want this to go away and just to be friends with her nothing more. This sorrow isn't worth it.
Author:  bkev [ Sun Jun 14, 2009 2:16 am ]
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Treasure your friendship Min. It hurts, but if this person is anything like theo ne I have in my similar situation, you couldn't go without her. Even if she's just a friend...
Author:  Addy-Lyn [ Sun Jun 14, 2009 4:05 pm ]
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She sounds like a major slut. And a bitch. And any other horrible name that could possibly run through my mind.
I'll come up there and kick her ass. And drag her face on some gravel road.

She's not even worth your post Jess. She's not worth wasting breath on. First of all, how could she be your friend, and pull such a stunt?
She's a lying, teasing C!@#.

Don't surround yourself by people like her. Real friends don't do that. Ugh.
Author:  supergirlcomix [ Sun Jun 14, 2009 10:16 pm ]
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*le sigh* If there is one thing that drives me bonkers, it's when a girl thinks that dating someone so they feel better is a GOOD idea.

I had a boy following me around once, heaven knows WHY. He'd follow me and follow me, dispite my constant reminders that I had no interest in him in that sense.

Well, ONE DAY, the boy gives me a HUGE bouquet of Lilies. Asks me to homecoming. I look at him and say..."I'm really sorry...but...no."

I talked to another boy later who sees me with this big bouquet of Lilies. He ask me who they're from, and I tell him the story.

"You should have gone out with him. He got you flowers."

When you gift someone with something like flowers, it is not a trade option. Unless it's a ring. That's an agreement.

Whoaaa...that was one of my few long discussions. BACK TO MINAGI:

My advice to you is this. If you value your friendship and truly beleive that you can grow out of this breed of feeling while in her presence...then I see no reason you can't remain friends IF you wish it. If you look within yourself and know that you can't...I see no healthy reason for you to pursue a friendship.

But in the end Minagi, only you can choose the path you take. Advice is advice. You can take it, or you can leave it.
Author:  Minagi [ Sun Jun 14, 2009 11:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: ... I think this was my first date...
Addy, don't talk about her like that! You don't know her like I do! Here's the main story, which is getting really old telling it over and over again:
Before I truly became a Chritian I relied on other people to cure my problems, I didn't want to give them to God for I felt I was bothering Him. I relied on many people, and heck I even did it on here, well then this girl comes along. She seems really happy and go lucky, but then she tells me her problems. I cried with her when I talked to her, she almost killed herself at one point. I care for this girl, but more so because I felt she could cure my problesms due to the similarties. Well, I told her my feelings towards her, like bf/gf scenerio, but she got scared. She was scared that someone could care for her. So, she kinda disappeared for a while and I was searching for her to cure my problems, I needed my drug. WELL as you could see that would scare anyone away even more so I freaked her out eve more and when I saw that she, the one I called my Paradox, could leave I knew I had no one left except God.
She took me out to see what it was like and she wasn't ready, she is protective and I understand. IT WAS MY FUALT! It was my fault for expecting to much and allowing all these emotions to flood over me and expecting her and I to emerge above the surface together, it was my own dumb fault. I cried for three days, the third time in Sunday school, not because what she did, she didn't do anything, she was being a friend and I excpeted to much! So, Addy don't you dare... DARE insult her like that. She is my sister like you are and I will continue to give her love, support, and encouragment, along with alota prayers as a brother.


Comix and Bkev, thank you for the advice. I will treat her as a friend, until... until she admits that she can be loved and can love back.
Author:  supergirlcomix [ Mon Jun 15, 2009 10:15 pm ]
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Love is a big word Minagi.

You can love someone as a friend very powerfully.

Never confuse that feeling with Romantic love.
Author:  Minagi [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 1:53 am ]
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Love as a brother, not a romantic sense, comix. I did allow that romantic love to seep out for a while and when I learned that she was not ready to accept that, it became poison and broke me down.
Love as a brother in Christ, ccomix, that type of love. Never romantic, never again.
Author:  crumpets the wise [ Tue Jun 16, 2009 2:16 am ]
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Dude, I just went through that again with the same girl. Not yours obviously. But...

SERIOUSLY?! What the bullhonkey?! Girls protective of falling in love? Guys get hurt too. And yes, guys cry.

This is retarded. I feel your pain completely. Last night she invites me over, everything is fine, we play Ocarina of Time (Shadow Temple) and then start drinking. I drink most of it and she hits me with that nonsense!!

Min... Sounds like we need to crusade for civil liberties on the oppressing female companion of LIES!! Men understand their emotions quite well, girls tend to confuse them and everyone around them.

Sorry comix, but your truly are a rarity, and sorry Addy, simply I fear your wrath.

Don't want to rant, but know that you AT THIS MOMENT have at least one immediate confederate in your friendzoning war.
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