No, she is REALLY unstable. Seriously.

You were dumped? Couldn't imagine why. Dude sucks.

bkev, Come on... How bad could it be? I had two girlfriends in a row threaten to kill me if I broke up with them, then broke up with me because I was too clingy. Years ago.

She loves and hates her friends every so often. And she supposedly lies a lot.

Pathological liar, sounds like she's manic. The two I spoke of were diagnosed with that. One is continuing treatment and leading a healthy life with her kids and boyfriend. The other, not so fortunate.

Still fun to ride the roller coaster! Even if it may even stop for repairs..

Lessee, she deleted the hwole school except for 2 people from facebook. AND not to mention I give her a ride to school every day she goes, and she asked me to go to prom. I don't know why that doesn't count as close-friend status, which is what she wants her facebook to be from now on.

It was a surprise to me. One second I'm lying on my bottom bunk, just hanging out with him after a long day of classes, the next thing he's telling me that he thinks it's better for both our happiness to be just friends.

I lost it. He promised me that if there were problems going on, we'd talk and work on them. We've both been stressed, and apparently he thinks we're better off. He said he doesn't love me anymore and wants to be friends. And the confusion begins.

Seeing as this is the only boy I consider myself to have loved (though while I was dating Pete I thought I did, but now that I look back, I think I was a bit too young to have known what it was, and was just following his lead), I was crashing bad yesterday. I saw him and everything hurt, I tried to avoid him. But I noticed...I only feel tolerable when I DON'T avoid him, which is the exact opposite of what I myself have heard and experienced. I still love him, but for some reason it hurts less knowing we're friends.

I was a silly panda last night, and confronted him about possible workings out...and he to0ld me perhaps we could date in the future, though not soon.

I went to one of my friends in tears.

She was with her boyfriend, another friend of mine, who watched me talk to her. Then he asked if I could listen to him for a second. He said my fella still loved me, but was going through some stuff and needed to work with himself in order to find happiness and be a better boyfriend.

Like I'm not already confused right now.

In general, he's acting strange. Still called me honey as I was talking to him...has been initiating physical things (hugs, pokes, ect.) and when I stopped by yesterday, he still had my letters that I randomly leave him up on his desk. He's not really acting like when we were friends...but more like the week before we started dating...I have no idea what to do. I love him, and I'm going to work through my inner conflict in the hopes of one day finding us able to try again, but I know that I value the friendship.

I've just never felt this way about anyone before...it's so disconcerting.

bkev... HAH! Challenge time! If you can manage to get her on a date your effin set for dating in college. Trust me.

Comix, that really sucks. Wonder what he needs to work out? But hey, may sound desperate, but I'd stay as close as possible, as long as possible. I just hope he doesn't decide to date anyone else knowing you're there for the rebound whenever he needs it (both sexes do it, and it sucks).

Comix, give him space. It sounds like that's what he really wants, as much as it hurts. Give it time. Just, ask him not to date anyone else in the meantime, haha! Sign on AIM sometime, I'm a good shoulder to lean on - I hope.

Also, not going with my date... she wants to take someone else, and she just asked me to be nice. Also, she's trashing our mutual friends and ending frienships via text - really immature. I mean, she's got health issues and has been outta school a lot recently, but that's no excuse. Still goin' to prom - it's on a motherfuckin BOAT!

But he's the one who INITIATES Bkev!! And he told me he wants to be friends, this whole 'still loves me' nonsense is ridiculous and I don't beleive a word of it.

I'm trying to be a good friend. Maybe someday we'll find ourselves walking the same path again.

bkev - Well, annoying/stupid people may be here for a reason? (nudge nudge) Oh well. Sounds like a bitch anyway.

Comix - Eh... Hopefully he doesn't try to take advantage of your whole "still want your affection even though you ditched me and give me mixed signals" thing. He may do the hook up and say it didn't re-initiate the relationship or whatever. If you chose him then hopefully it was for a good reason, then again, first loves either turn out great, or more often, total dicks.

If snakes appear on said boat, will Samuel L. Jackson be there?! (Your tone flashed his face in MOI MOINDS EYE)

Crumpets: He's an odd panda, and just wants things to be cool with us. I'm a smart cookie. I can take care of myself. He's a really nice guy, and even if we're not dating anymore, he's cool to have as a friend.

I'm glad you have the sensibility to be that way, Comix. Me on the other hand...

Well, all's well that ends well.

And bkev, have you tried hitting on any girls at your school? Maybe a mild flirt? A glance?

Well, I'm a silly romantic who's not interested in a quick hook-up. Not something you'd expect to hear from a high schooler, but 'tis the case. Plus, I'm sort of flirting with a friend of someone - wouldn't say that for sure, though, as I haven't met her yet haha.

I wasn't either, in fact, the only hook ups I got were the girls not wanting the relationship. It's actually a recent development that I want to go studdin. After this relationship of course.

And... Haven't met her yet... Interesting flirting scenario. Got a plan of attack? Or just hope you can get some attention with your wit and charm?